In Solemn's post, What Makes a Good Girl he mentions some of the Good Girl Traits that should be sought in a potential wife(and any LTR really). At the end,I mentioned two things. The first, true femininity, was a sorta cop-out. It encompasses a number of traits that a girl should have. It even includes my second recommendation: cooking.
First, I'm a good cook. I don't have any
real trouble making anything. If I have the recipe, I can fix it. When I
do cook, I want everyone out of my kitchen.
Second, the fact that I can
cook does not mean that the new age churchian equal submission BS
flies. I expect a girl to know her way around the counter top, modern
gender roles be damned. There is something deeply and simply feminine
about a girl preparing a meal for her loved ones. Even though many of
the top competitive chefs are men, there is a vitally important
difference between them and a dinner table set for the husband and kids.
I'm honestly not sure it can be put into words, just that it is a
primal feeling of 'rightness' if you will. Unfortunately, thanks to
feminist memes, the notion of a wife doing the cooking has come to be
seen as 'chaining her to the stove.' Because it is awful when a woman
isn't "free" to fight traffic morning and evening, send her flesh and
blood to mind and soul crushing prisons of PC thought we call public
school, and work at a job that the world would probably be better off
Now, along with the wifely duty of providing loving
nourishment, there was once, when the world made sense, the idea of a
women staying home to take care of the house. Look back far enough and
she would have had a pretty strong role in the education of her
children. That, at least, has seen a resurgence with home schooling
becoming popular in the last two decades. In any case, thanks to a
surplus in labor (thanks again feminism) women are less free to choose
to be a Stay at Home Mother. Yet, it is still a possibility. And if you
intend to take a wife* it should be a major goal. As I give it some
thought, general home-keeping is a pretty massive GGT and a very
desirable feminine virtue. In a traditional family(Father, Mother, and
kids) The mother tends towards, well, motherly behaviour. Sort of the
good cop to Dad's bad cop. She's there to make it better. Whether it is
cuts and bruises, a sympathetic ear and shoulder or just a crap day that
gets junior down.
How exactly is a woman going to do any of this
if she is off empowering herself so she can pay other people to take
care of her kids and husband.
*Don't say 'get married' say 'take a wife'. It just sounds better.